Sleeping Patterns Eve

Are you an early bird or a night owl? Do sleeping patterns impact your ability to connect? How do you fit in with the Adam that wakes at 5am or goes to bed at 9pm, or doesn’t seem to sleep at all? How do you go with the added complexities of : preferences for beauty sleep; quality of sleep; desire to sleep-in; style of the bed and sheets; frequency of washing the bedding; and the numbers of partners being slept with? May you sleep well and have sweet dreams.

Spotless Eve

Cleanliness can be a contentious issue between couples. Personally I feel the more you talk about cleaning the less ready you are for a relationship. For me I fit these mundane tasks around life. For others cleaning gives a sense of calm. Surely spending times with loved ones is preferential to mopping floors???

Sad Eve

Online dating is a roller-coaster ride. Just like life there are peaks and troughs that have us elated and upset. When it is our turn to feel sad we wish it weren’t. Ending relationships is never easy.

Spots Around Town Eve

Expanding your world is definitely an advantage of dating. Now as I drive around town I reminisce about the places I’ve been. It definitely gives you a new map of life. Venues transform similar to the transient nature of dating. Grasp your sense of adventure and get some new spots.

Searching For Perfection Eve

Wow we have high expectations of Adams. Test your wish list against your friends – see if the people you know can actually deliver. Then tap into your own experiences and the feelings of wonder. Let the feelings well up inside you. Remember this experience and associate it with the wonderful sensations you have just tapped into. Now go outside into your world and see how great everything looks. Enjoy!

Sparks Fly Eve

Sparks are what we all seem to be looking for. I believe sparks stem from mutual attraction and I certainly believe they exist. Sparks help you build a relationship with the associated feeling of ‘love’ enable you to ovecome differences between you and Adam. Here’s to your sparks flying and you finding ways to keep them alive.

Sorted Eve

When is the ‘right’ time to start dating? Of course this varies for everyone. I suggest you will have more success with dating when you life is sorted out. What this looks life for you is unique. Give it a go!

Stringing ’em Along Eve

Online dating really can get you tangled up – the highly strung; the strung out; the stringing along; and the strung up. There are no shortage of options. How many Adams do you see at one time?

Savouring Eve

Human nature can bring animosity, anger and angst to so many of the things we do. Online dating is no exception. Rather than taking this emotional path I suggest you adopt a savouring approach. Savouring is to enjoy the delights that experiences bring us. Reflecting on pleasurable moments brings our minds joy, our bodies relaxation and our hearts healing. What are you going to savour?

Sharing Eve

Does sharing spread Eve too thin? No sharing leads to a great many things – wonderful experiences, deepened friendships, new encounters, great laughs, healing hearts and frolics morning, noon and night. May sharing enrich your life.

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Tips and traps for online daters. I'm Surely Eve, sharing my online dating experience. I want to know about your online dating experience, through short surveys at the end of each blog. Your input will show us online daters if we are all in the same boat.

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