Swapping Eve & Adam

International Womens’ Day is a time to think about how women are portrayed in all aspects of life. It is important for Eves to feel pride and capable and confident in the world. The on-line dating world is no exception. I encourage Eves to write profiles that reflect who they are. I’m not sure we’re there yet…

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Spiders and Eve

Dear Dater, A while ago now I wrote about [Swans or Swallows] comparing Adam to birds. At the time I offered to write about Spiders and Eve. This story is much more alarming. Spiders are alarming for many people without knowing much about them – just based on their appearance. It turns out that the […]

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Simply Strange Eve

Dear Dater Over time things change. Sometimes it is our memory of things. At other times it is the perception of things that changes. Here’s what I mean. I’ve just watched Vertigo – Alfred Hitchcock’s movie. I haven’t seen it for a very long time. I remembered parts of the movie. Watching it today I […]

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Surly Eve

Being rude, grumpy, short-tempered, disagreeable and crabby are not behaviours usually associated with dating, but unfortunately there are times when they burst out of you…

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Serendipitous Eve

Dear Dater Coincidences on dates are amusing – like the Adam that bought his first house on the street I now live in. Or the Adam that was going out with a Eve with the same name as a friend of mine, who’d just broken up with an Adam with the same name as this […]

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Self-aware Eve

How are you at answering – get to know you questions? What’s your favourite …..? I’ve found these a challenge for various reasons. Here’s some suggestions to assist your insight into your passions and achievements to give you spark and zest…..

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