“Live in the present” is a catch cry being thrown around – but it is an age old message. We often drift into our thoughts – taking us to the past or the future. How often do we bring ourselves to the present? How does this shape our lives and our relationships?Read more "Shaped by the Past Eve"
Do you know friends of yours who know other people you know? This is ‘six degrees of separation’. It takes on a whole new level of complexity when the friends in question are your Ex Adam going out with your current Adam’s Ex Eve….. Has this ever happened to you?Read more "Six Degrees of Separation Eve"
Online dating is journey of discovery. The multiple methods of communication between you and Adam along with the multiple methods online dating sites have enabling you to contact Adams. Here is a snap shot of my latest stampede to overcome my contact expiry. How is your journey going?Read more "Six Stamps Stampede Eve"
Similarities are fun to find. They help to form a bond between you and Adam. We build connections this way. Finding your soulmate takes you to another level of connectedness – a level I hadn’t realised existed. Have you found your soulmate?Read more "Similar or Soulmate Eve"
What are your experiences of shared experiences? Do Adams and Eves genuinely enjoy spending time together doing various things? Or is it sex that drives the shared experiences? Perhaps for Adams it is shared endurance? What do you think?Read more "Shared Experiences Eve"
Why do we seesaw between feeling peaceful and free to feeling full of sorrow? Understanding the journey of loss can assist us understand. On the roller coaster of life get off at the top – rather than at the bottom. Free up your heart to find new love.Read more "Spilt Milk Eve"
Do you really see the world around you? Do you skim around the edges and take the fast and busy approach? Do you delve in further, but don’t realise there is more that you could be doing? Do you see what’s around you and make the most of life? Take a look at how you approach your world and the world of online dating.Read more "Seeing Eve"
If you found yourself visiting one or more online dating sites on 8 January – know that you are not alone. This is the most popular day of the year for online dating sites. Bring your wonderful self to the scene and join all the cool people, young and old. Remember the key is to have a heart! (Even if it gets broken sometimes).
May 2018 bring you just the shark – sorry the Adam – your heart desires.
What does online dating success look like for you? Is it the getting out looking glamorous? great company, conversations and delicious meals? renewed faith in quality relationships? or better understanding of individuals and desires? Wishing you every success in 2018!Read more "Successful Eve"
Listen carefully to Adam when you first meet him. Listen for those pick up lines – Not the ones that charm you, but the ones that alarm you….. Work out how these statements translate in a relationship….. Is that really what you want?Read more "Sleuthing Eve"