online dating tips and traps

Spiders and Eve

Dear Dater, A while ago now I wrote about [Swans or Swallows] comparing Adam to birds. At the time I offered to write about Spiders and Eve. This story is much more alarming. Spiders are alarming for many people without knowing much about them – just based on their appearance. It turns out that the […]

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Simply Strange Eve

Dear Dater Over time things change. Sometimes it is our memory of things. At other times it is the perception of things that changes. Here’s what I mean. I’ve just watched Vertigo – Alfred Hitchcock’s movie. I haven’t seen it for a very long time. I remembered parts of the movie. Watching it today I […]

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Surly Eve

Being rude, grumpy, short-tempered, disagreeable and crabby are not behaviours usually associated with dating, but unfortunately there are times when they burst out of you…

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So Many Suitors Eve

With online dating there can be a perception that there’s an unlimited supply of Adams. There’s more to it than that. Your senses are on full alert to gather intelligence and piece this Adam together to see what you find….

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