Dear Dater

Adams who say they want to support Eve in a relationship is a great foundation.

Recently an Adam told me I was beautiful from our first date.  It was a wonderful compliment.  I was walking on air.  Feeling great.  I’d been keeping my eye on some material and knowing I was beautiful I bought the material and made a dress.  I wore it on one of our dates.

Making people feel special has unknown consequences.

Why do we hold back on complimenting each other?

Why do we find it easier to nag and pick faults than to express our love?

A book I bought recently “Spirit A Path to Inner Peace” by Suzanne Maher has many wonder quotes – to go with the fantastic photos.  Looking through the book now to find the quote I am looking for I find another one I want to share with you:

– Cheerfulness is the very flower of health.

Here is the one I was looking for:

– Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.

Does that resonate with you?

For me I think the barriers we form over our lives – with relationships that have headed south –  have us  protect ourselves rather than bringing our full selves into new relationships.

One of my relatives told me the heart is a muscle. It needs exercise.

Take on complementing your Adam (and your friends and colleagues).

Take on feeling gratitude for what you have.

Kindness has so many benefits.

Take on supporting your Adam and yourself. Watch your relationship and your world grow in ways you could not imagine.

Let me know how replacing nagging with compliments is working for you.

Spread joy through the world. Show your love.

You will never know how your kindness impacts others.

Surely Eve