Dear Dater,

Online dating gives you loads to be suspicious about.

There are questions around:

• How many people Adam is dating?
  • (Is Adam with another Eve on the nights he doesn’t call?)
• Why is Adam only returning texts once a day?
  • (Does Adam’s home life not expect him to be contacting other Eves?)
• Why is Adam’s favourite time to text dinner time?
  • (Is Adam’s partner cooking dinner?)
• Why does Adam claim his car is broken down… at the petrol station…. and never mentions it again?
  • (Same location as Adam’s favourite ‘coffee’ – (Non)-Smoking Eve)
• Why does Adam only meet you for lunch, or in the afternoon?
  • (Who lives in Adam’s house he doesn’t want you to know about?)
• Why doesn’t Adam share much information about himself?
  • (What is his life actually like?)
• Why doesn’t Adam want you to meet his kids?
  • (What is Adam’s agenda?)

Trust me. I’m not being paranoid.  At the very least I know Adam is not sitting at home bored.

I am making comparisons with relationships that work – where Adam:

• call you for chats in the evening
• texts you for hours
• is quick to invite you to his house
• wants you to watch his favourite shows
• invites you for sleep-overs
• takes you on holidays
• asks your advice on issues
• fits you into his life.

So which do you prefer?

Surely Eve